But how effective can this be, really?
但效果到底如何?真有这么神奇吗?
In under an hour it can create a connection stronger than a lifelong friendship.
在一个小时内建立起来的感情比终身友谊的感情更强烈。
What he found was striking. The intensity of the dialogue partners’ bond at the end of the forty-five-minute vulnerability interaction was rated as closer than the closest relationship in the lives of 30 percent of similar students. In other words, the instant connections were more powerful than many long-term, even lifelong relationships.
他的发现非常惊人。45分钟的对话时间结束双方所建立起来的亲密感,类似30%的学生在生活中行成的最亲密的感情。换句话说,即时建立起来的亲密感超越了许多长期培养的感情,甚至比终身培养起来的感情还要强大。
4.Choose Controversial Over Dull Every Time
4.每次约会的争论气氛胜于沉闷气氛
If all else fails, talk about abortions and STD’s.
如果其他话题都争论不起来的话,争论一下堕胎和性病传播这类问题。
Forcing people to discuss interesting but more controversial topics made for more enjoyable first date conversation.
迫使大家讨论有意思但更有争议性的话题,营造这样的气氛会让第一次约会交谈的气氛更令人愉快。
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