5. They channel their inner celebrity.
他们引导自己向内心的名人看齐。
A confident person's mantra is "I am Beyonce." OK, maybe that's just this author's, but regardless, there's power in celebrity. Research published in the journal Personal Relationships found that when people wrote down qualities they shared with their favorite celebrities of the same gender, they felt much more compelled to become their best selves.
自信之人的咒语是“我是碧昂斯(美国女歌手)”。好吧,可能那只是本作者的想法,但不管怎样,名人效应总是有的。发表在《人际关系》杂志上的研究发现,当人们写下与自己最喜欢的同性别名人所共有的品格时,他们会迫使自己做到最好。
6. They stick to their convictions.
他们坚持自己的信念。
Confident people place trust in their own opinions -- but not without listening to others, of course. As confidence coach Susie Moore explained in a HuffPost blog, confident people hear all sides of an argument, but ultimately, they stick to what they feel is best.
自信的人信赖自己的想法——当然也不是不听人劝。正如自信导师苏西•摩尔在赫芬顿邮报博客中写道:自信的人会倾听辩论双方的观点,但最终他们会坚持自己看来最好的想法。
"Confident people listen to other people but do not let their difference of perspective take them off track," she wrote.
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