2. Talk, don't read. Ever have a hunch that your significant other isn't telling you something? Because relationships (and people) go through phases. It's your time to let the other know that you're feeling left out, or disconnected. Most importantly, remember to open the conversation from a curious standpoint, not confrontational or accusatory.
2. 说,不要读。 是不是总觉得你的另一半根本什么都不讲给你听呢?因为感情(或是人)会经历不同的阶段。是时候让你的另一半知道,你感觉自己被TA忽略了,没有感觉到彼此的关联。更重要的是,记住要以好奇的角度而不是以一种对抗和指责的氛围开启谈话。
3. Listen, don't talk. It's easy to get caught up in multi-tasking. All of these things can prevent couples from hearing each other completely and communicating well. Always listen to what your loved one is telling you. Four tips for listening better are: focus on your partner, don't interrupt, pay attention to their body language and validate what they said- before you respond.
3. 听,不要说。人们很容易被很多事务缠身。这些事情使得夫妻俩不能互相倾听,也不能够很好地沟通和交流。要经常听听你的挚爱对你的倾诉。最好的4个倾听方式是:注意力集中到你爱人的身上、不要打断、注意他们的肢体语言以及在你回应之前要确认他们说的是什么。
4. Put up a good fight. Love is wonderful, but it can also be emotionally exhausting. The popular saying 'Don't go to bed angry' can put pressure on a couple to resolve something that doesn't always have a quick solution. By following that rule, you may be at the giving or receiving end of lip service. Take time to authenticaly resolve a problem. It could take hours or days, and several heated conversations, but do not give up when your relationship is worth fighting for.
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