洛格纳汗写道:’当然,并不存在统一的正确答案.如果看到大块巧克力会联想到吃虫子感觉恶心,就应该选看上去更正常的小巧克力.’然而,68%的S-与-S型人决定做’理性的’选择,不受情感影响,最后吞下了虫子形状的大巧克力.洛格纳汗补充道:’不必说,他们吃得不太开心.’
If You’re So Smart takes a close look at seven different ways the S-and-S most often end up choosing the chocolate bug, so to speak — and, luckily, offers seven “habits of the highly happy’ describing how to stop inadvertently making oneself miserable. To his credit, Ragunathan acknowledges that getting out of our own way is not simple or easy. That’s partly because most of us are “conditioned to devalue happiness right from childhood,’ he writes, and the S-and-S seem to learn those lessons more thoroughly than most.
《如果你非常聪明,为什么你不快乐?》仔细观察了S-与-S型人大部分最终选择昆虫形状巧克力的七种不同方式.幸运的是,书中也提供了七种’让人开心的习惯’,帮助人们停止无意中折磨自己.洛格纳汗承认,改变个人习惯绝非易事,因为多数人’从孩提时起就学着贬低快乐,’ S-与-S型人只是比多数人记得更牢.
It’s especially hard for S-and-S parents not to pass along the chocolate-bug-munching habit to their offspring. Raghunathan discovered this when he started to get annoyed with his small son for playing with a big cardboard box, instead of the expensive toy that had come in it. As he tells it, “I realized that it is precisely because we tell our children what to value — money, value for money, status, beauty, power, etc. — that they learn to lose sight of what truly makes them happy.’
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