一定不要拿他们的弱点消遣。你每天都可以选择消遣伴侣的缺点或者反复强调他们的优点。如果你不断地说他们做错了什么,那么他们就永远都不会有做对的动力。在这种负能量作用下,情感关系是不可能向前发展的。
Don't get even: No matter what your partner has done or however they've wronged you in the past, don't retaliate or act in bad faith. Keep your personal karma clean by always treating the other person the way you'd like to be treated, regardless of the way they behave towards you.
一定不要报复。不论你的伴侣做过什么,不论以前他们怎么冤枉过你,一定不要报复或者故意使坏。远离因果报应,希望别人怎样对待你,你就怎样对待别人,不论他们到底是怎么对你的。
Don't assume or blow things out of proportion: Before you throw a tantrum, sit and reflect logically: Is it really as bad as I assume? Speak to your partner openly about what's bothering you instead of blowing up on them.
一定不要胡思乱想或大发脾气。在你发脾气之前,坐下来,理智地思考一下:事情真的像我想象得那么糟吗?开诚布公地和伴侣谈谈让你心烦的事,而不是冲着他们发脾气。
Don't act out of desperation: Think through your decisions a thousand times before you act on them. Acting on desperation will only yield more desperation. If you're desperate to get your partner to change, don't threaten to break up with them when in reality it's the last thing you want to.
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