一定要一起规划人生。我们的规划不一定会实现,但是和伴侣一起憧憬未来可以激励我们沿着正确的方向朝着长期目标大步迈进。你们可以谈谈未来几年的事,达成一致策略,以实现共同目标:如房屋计划、家庭计划、投资计划等等。
Do bring them comfort: Your partner wants to come home to love, not to a headache. Make your home a place that always reels your partner back because they feel safe, stable, and nurtured. Don't start talking about your problems as soon as your partner walks through the door.
一定要让他们感到舒适。你的伴侣希望回家能感受到爱,而不是一回去就头疼。把你的家打造成一个伴侣心之所系之处,让他们感觉安全、稳定、受到关爱。不要伴侣一走进家门,你就开始倾诉自己遇到的问题。
Do act in the right time: Time can be your biggest enemy or your best friend. The wisdom is to recognize when you should act versus when you should wait. Don't obligate your partner to do things in a certain amount of time.
一定要在合适的时间做合适的事。时间可以是你最大的敌人,也可以是你最好的朋友。关键是你要用智慧分辨出什么时候应该有所行动、什么时候应该耐心等待。一定不要强迫你的伴侣在限定的时间内做什么事。
Don't play on their weaknesses: Every day, you have the choice to play on your partner's weaknesses or to reiterate their strengths. If you constantly bring up what they're doing wrong, they'll never feel motivated to do anything right. No relationship can improve under such negative energy.
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