小心这6个迹象说明TA在对你撒谎_BEC初级作文

小心这6个迹象说明TA在对你撒谎

要是说真话，那么总会记得再说什么。名字啊，地点啊，时间之类的也不会搞混。要是撒谎了，说法就一会儿一个新版本了。自然状态下的说话，他们不用演。要是想编个说法出来，那么就得“演练”了，看起来也就会不自然。此外，注意表情，撒谎的时候，表情变化会丰富多彩。

2. Do they become extremely defensive?他们是不是变得异常具有自我保护意识?

A person who lies is so scared of being caught that every defense mechanism kicks in when they’re confronted about it. If you confront them with something that’s bothering you, and they suddenly become too defensive. Someone who’s truthful will never need to be defensive while explaining themselves to you because they truly care about you and can’t see you suffer.

那些有事情藏着掖着的人总是担心被识破，导致所有的防御机制都开启了。要是你因为一件事忧虑而去质问他，他们会突然变得有防御心起来。说真话可用不着什么防御心，因为那人会很在意你的感受，也不想看到你为了一件事忧虑。

1. Has their behavior changed over the weeks?

这几个星期以来，他们的表现是不是有点异常?

When someone lies to you, they will never act the same around you until they tell you the lie. They’ll be very uneasy around you, usually very quiet or down, it’s because deep down inside the lie is constantly reminding them of its existence.