生命中的这些匆匆过客该如何面对?_BEC初级作文

生命中的这些匆匆过客该如何面对?

佛曰：人生在世，苦海无边。心中所爱，终将逝去。我们终将长大成人，父母终将垂垂逝去，这是自然法则。然而，有时意外发生得太突然，未必等到我们长大。我年幼时，父亲横遭车祸，猝然离世。我没来得及和他好好道别，他再也看不到我从爱惹事的毛丫头长成稍稍安分一点的大人。他至死仍挂念我，我此生都怀念他。但是，他的英年早逝深深改变了我，让我更快懂事长大，从此不断努力，希望让他骄傲。亲人意外离世，我们只能默默消化。由此带来的冲击，随着我们成长，深入我们的内在，像道道断层，又像片片创伤。任何经历过亲人意外离世的人都会说，今天的空气和那天比，并没什么不同。木槿花的清新芬芳，炼油厂的刺鼻气味，或者甜甜圈的诱人甜香，都能唤起那天的回忆。突然之间，我们就会热泪盈眶，心如刀绞。人生在世，几家哀愁，伤逝如此美丽，我们与之如影随形。经历令我们学习成长，或许还帮助我们看开意外转折，寻得平淡安宁。

5. The Death You Had to Face Day by Day

5.日日逼近的死亡

My mom died when I was already an adult—a mother myself. Her death was slow, expected. This made it no easier. Losses like this begin well before the person is gone, because we imagine the world going on without them. The anticipation of it is like a slow, steady burn. We become used to grieving. We hold their hands, press compresses to their wounds, watch as medication drips into their veins, all the while faced with the impossibility of our own powerlessness. This too, is beautiful, human brokenness.