14. Ask questions.
问问题。
Asking other people questions — about their lives, their interests, their passions — is a surefire way to get brownie points in their friendship books. People are egocentric — they love to talk about themselves. If you're asking questions and getting people to talk about themselves, they'll leave the conversation thinking you're the coolest. Even if the conversation didn't really give the other person a reason to like you, he or she will think better of you subconsciously just for indulging this or her ego.
问别人一些关于它们生活、兴趣或爱好的问题是赢得友谊屡试不爽的方法。人们都以自我为中心——他们喜欢讨论自己。如果你问问题,让他们谈论关于自己的事,聊完天的时候他们会觉着你真好。即使对话内容真的没法让对方喜欢上你,但就因为沉浸在这种自我价值感里,他或她在潜意识里也会对你印象更好。
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