5. "Do You Want To Come Back To My Place?"
“你想去我家吗?”
The night is wrapping up and the date is going incredibly well. You don't want to make assumptions, so you drop the question, offering to move the night back to your place. Of course you want her to go back to your place after a date, but phrasing the question in this manner makes it feel like sex is expected. There are ways to get her back to your place without being so blunt, and frankly, putting her on the spot.
一晚上约会进展得特别顺利,你不想独自假设,所以就抛出了这个问题,提出要去你家继续约会。当然你想让她约会之后跟你回家,但这样提问就给人感觉你想跟她发生关系。有很多方法都可以不这么直接地让她跟你回家,老实说,你可以不这样为难她。
Instead Say: "I just don't feel like the night should end here."
相反你可以说:“我就是不想这个晚上就这样结束了。”
This works for two reasons: There isn't a question that needs to be answered so, in case the answer is no, she doesn't have to come right out and reject the offer. The second reason it works is because it gives her the chance to make the suggestion. She might say, "Let's go back to your place," or even suggest her place. Either way, the choice is hers to make the offer without feeling pressured to answer in the moment.
这样说很管用有两个原因:有的问题不需要回答,除非答案是否定的,所以她不需要直接拒绝你;第二个原因就是给她机会给出建议。她可能会说:“去你家吧”,或者甚至建议去她家。无论怎样,选择权都在她手上,还不会让她感觉当时要被迫给出答案。
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