“它往往代表了一种防御机制,我们下意识地用它用来保护自己在听到拒绝时不受伤害。或者把它用作一种消除不适感的方法,免得感觉自己要求太多。”
I'M NO EXPERT, BUT
我不在行,但是
Avoid this phrase, even if you're saying it to try not to sound pushy. Suggesting you may be wrong before even giving your opinion can make your statement seem less credible.
不要使用这种表述,即使你这么说是为了听起来不那么强硬。在发表观点前暗示自己可能是错的,这会削弱你观点的可信度。
WHAT IF WE TRIED…?
如果我们试着……?
State your ideas in a straightforward manner and you're more likely to be taken seriously, advises Melody.
梅洛迪建议使用直截了当的方式陈述观点,这样你才更有可能被认真对待。
'Masking your opinions as questions invites rebuttal and can lead to you feel criticised.'
“用问句隐藏观点会招来反驳,还让你觉得受到了批评。”
When posing an idea, don't 'poll'. Make it clear that you think your ideas are valid and worth everyone's time to listen to.
提出观点时,别小心翼翼试探别人的看法。应当清楚地表示你认为自己的观点有理有据,值得每一个人认真倾听。
I CAN'T
我不能
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