如今不断推陈出新的通讯工具随处可得,使得我们已不大愿意和别人真诚的交谈。因此,在发送一条短信之前,问问你自己是当面说更有效,还是在手机上发短信好些。这样就给你自己(和接收端的那个人)免了许多头疼的事情。
7.Waiting instead of listening.
7.等待而不是倾听。
As my mom always loves to tell me, "There's a big difference between hearing and listening!" And when you're having a conversation with someone, you should be actively listening.
正如我的妈妈总是喜欢告诉我,“听到和倾听之间是有很大的区别的!” 当你和某人谈话时,你应该积极地倾听。
That means you're not just staying silent while thinking of your next point and waiting for your chance to talk again. Instead, you're engaged in what that person is explaining. Trust me -- people can tell when you're tuning them out.
这意味着你在思考下一个观点并等待机会再次交谈时,不能只是保持沉默。相反,你要开始投入到对话中。相信我----别人会告诉你什么时候可以说出来。
8.Using filler words.
8.使用赘词。
"Hey, Jason. Umm ... I'm just checking in on that, uhhh ... report to see if you think you'll, like, have that done by the end of the day."
“嗨,詹森。嗯……我正在检查那个,额……报告……看看你是否喜欢,能在今天结束前做好。”
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