不过,《大西洋月刊》上一项新的研究发现,更加慎重抱怨的人(这种人的脑海中有一个明确的终极结果),比那些单纯宣泄的人更快乐。
If you need to complain, there's a way to express some negativity without turning off everyone around you or exacerbating the situation. According to psychologist Guy Winch, there's a "right" way to gripe.
如果你需要抱怨,有一种方法既可以抒发负面情绪,又不会让周围的人感到厌烦或让情况恶化。据心理专家盖伊•温奇称,抱怨也是有“正确”的方法的。
"An effective complaint is about an issue that can be remedied, and is addressed to someone who has the power to fix it."
“有效的抱怨会围绕一个可以补救的问题进行,而且抱怨的对象要是有能力处理这个问题的人。”
5. Chewing gum
嚼口香糖
It's rude to do it in a job interview, so don't. But when you're sitting alone, it could be a key to productivity and relaxation.
在面试时吃口香糖是一种无礼的行为,千万不要这样。不过如果你独自待着,嚼口香糖是一种提高效率、放松心情的好办法。
Multiple studies suggest that chewing gum helps you feel more alert - one study even found that people who chewed gum performed better on an intelligence test than people who didn't.
许多研究认为,嚼口香糖能让你的思维更敏捷,甚至还有研究发现,嚼口香糖的人在智力测试中的表现会比没有嚼口香糖的人更好。
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