如果你们同修一门课、在同一个办公室工作或有共同的朋友,可能你只是因为太经常看到对方,才萌生了复合的想法。心理学家兼爱情专家尼基•马丁内斯博士告诉Bustle:“和对方接触太亲密,以及花过多时间在他们身上,会让你无法放下过去,认识新的人。”要确保你们保持恰当的距离。
7. Do You Want To Put The Time In?
你真的愿意为这段关系投入时间吗?
Getting back together and making a relationship work takes a lot of investment. You need to be prepared to put in the time and energy — and feel sure that your ex will do the same.
想要重修旧好需要投入很多精力。你必须准备好投入时间、心思,并确信你的另一半也会如此。
8. Are You Just Horny?
你只是太饥渴吗?
Are you? No judgement, but it's probably not a good enough reason to get back into a relationship that wasn't working the first time.
是这样吗?无意冒犯,但因此恢复一段原本不合适的恋情,可能不是一个好理由。
9. Are You Scared To Be Single?
你是害怕单身吗?
Too many people run back to the last person they were with because they're scared of being single — even though it can be a life-changing experience. "It can actually be a time to learn more about oneself and experience the greatest self-growth,” psychotherapist Mary Beth Somich tells Bustle. “Feeling lonely as a result of being single can actually inspire individuals to have new experiences that they would not have put themselves out there for otherwise."
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