"WHY DIDN'T YOU ANSWER MY TEXT?"

"你干嘛不回我短信？"

Texting is great for communicating certain things: Appointment confirmations, lunch orders, shopping lists, and (obviously) funny memes. What it's not great for? Communicating emotions. Couples often end up in blow-out fights about things said (or not said) in a text. "Texts are too easily misinterpreted," says Laney Zukerman, Ph.D., psychology professor and author of Lessons for an Urban Goddess. If a conflict starts in a text, whatever you do, don't continue that argument by texting, she adds. "If you are upset, frustrated or truly angry about something, you will need to breathe and wait until you see your partner in person to express your upset. Impulsive texting is a big no no."

发短信很适合交流一些事情：确认预约、订午餐、购物清单和有趣的回忆（显而易见）。那不适合什么呢？交流感情。情侣们总会因为短信中说过的一些话而大吵一架，最终导致分手。"短信很容易让人产生误解，"心理学教授兼《写给城市女神的教训》（Lessons for an Urban Goddess）一书的作者莱尼·祖克曼博士说道。如果争吵是由短信引起的，不管你在做什么，千万不要通过发短信继续争吵，她补充说。"如果你对某事真的很伤心、沮丧或生气，你应该深呼吸，然后等见到另一半本人时再说出自己的难过。冲动的发短信绝对是大大的不可以。"

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