2.将他们的零花钱与他们的行为表现好坏绑定
When they do what they are told on a regular basis, steadily increase their allowance. Reduce or take away this privilege, though, when they continuously misbehave.
当他们完成了你告诉他们定期需要做的事情,那就逐渐增加他们的零花钱。当他们持续表现不好的时候,就减少零花钱,或者直接不给他们零花钱。
Start each teenager on a low allowance but, by all means, give them one. Keep in mind, though, that this is only one of many possible ways to reward (or punish) specific behaviors.
但是给每个青少年孩子的零花钱,开始的时候一定要很少,就只给他们一张钱花。然而要记住,这仅仅是奖励(或者惩罚)特殊行为表现的多种可能的方式之一。
3. Let them pay for everything they want
3.让他们自己支付任何他们想要的东西
Other than gifts and daily sustenance, let them pay for everything they want. There is no better way for young people to make a connection between what they get and the cost involved than by letting them feel the pain thereof directly. Too many parents and guardians spoil their wards by providing all kinds of goodies which have simply not been earned.
除了礼物和日常用品外,让孩子自己支付他们想要的任何东西。没有什么方式比这更好了,这可以将他们的得失与他们所感觉到的痛直接联系起来。许多家长和监护人宠坏了孩子,就是因为他们给孩子提供了所有不是孩子自己挣来的好东西。
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