当问及情侣间犯的最常见的错误时,情感教练塔拉·卡菲拉说:"我想主要的原因就是我们忘记了我们是一个团队。""我会和夫妻中的一个人交流,我们会有一些很棒的发现,然后他们就会说'你说要不要把这件事告诉另一半呢?'这时候我真想扇他们一个大嘴巴然后说,'当然要说了!'"
Your partner is called a partner for a reason.
为什么要称呼他/她为另一半?那是有原因的。
You have to remember those early days when you used to tell each other everything. Once distance starts to form between you two, it's easy for it to go unnoticed until it really becomes an issue, and it's also difficult to close once you reach a certain point.
你要记得刚开始恋爱你们无话不谈的日子。一旦你们之间有了距离,在这件事真正变成问题之前,你们都会忽略它,因此一旦有了一定距离,就很难再变得亲密了。
"I think somehow it becomes that we're adversaries in our minds, and we stop thinking about sharing the vulnerable pieces of ourselves or being a team and calling your person," Tara said.
"我想在我们的脑中,我们不知不觉成了敌人,不再分享我们的脆弱、不再是一个团队、也不再煲电话粥,"塔拉说。
An example Tara used is being too afraid to tell your partner that you've gotten yourself into credit card debt. You need help but you feel guilty and don't want to be judged, so you continue to keep this secret to yourself, only making the problem worse.
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