It should go without saying that even happy couples fight (and here's what they fight about!) Still, with 40 to 50 percent of marriages ending in divorce, the way you bicker might be more important than you realise.

毫无疑问，即使幸福的夫妻也会吵架（他们会争吵这些事情！）但是，40%至50%的婚姻仍然会以离婚收场，你们争吵的方式可能比你意识到的还要重要。

Think about the last argument you had with your partner. What was the root cause? If you pick fights over something you won't remember in two or three weeks' time, it could be a secret sign your marriage is headed for divorce. Thankfully, there's now an easy way to avoid it!

想想看：上一次和伴侣争吵是为了什么？根本原因又是什么？如果两三周后你都不记得你们当初为什么会吵架，那你就得小心了，这一迹象表明你的婚姻正在迈向离婚。幸运的是，有个简单的方法可以避免你们走向陌路。

Kara Lawler, blogger for Mothering the Divide, recently shared a bit of marriage advice with TODAY. According to her, one of the most surprising secrets of happily married couples is not their constant communication-but lack thereof.

近日，Mothering the Divide的博主卡拉·劳勒与TODAY杂志分享了她关于婚姻的一些小建议。她认为，夫妻之间维持幸福婚姻的最令人感到不可思议的秘密是他们并非总是交流问题--而是缺少交流。

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