现在,我的不安来源于其它原因。自小学毕业起,我就拥有了那群最好的朋友。转眼我30岁了,他们都订婚了、或是结婚了、有孩子了。我真心为他们感到高兴。我希望成为他们全新而又激动的生活的一部分。但我却在被慢慢榨干,因为我是一群情侣中唯一的一个单身汉。我从未如此在乎过,但我现在却觉得我在争分夺秒的追求幸福,而只有同性才能给我带来这种幸福。我享受单身、孤独的生活,但我却与那群我最爱的人越来越不协调。我觉得再也不能像以前那样和他们心灵相通了。
How can I be single in a world of coupledom without crippling anxiety? Is this normal when you turn 30? It doesn't help that parents are nagging, work is not as fulfilling as it once was, and I am longing for a drastic change in life but have no idea where to begin.
如何才能在一群情侣中保持单身而又不感到焦虑呢?当你30岁时,这正常吗?父母唠叨、工作不如以往那般充实是没有任何帮助的,而我正渴望着生活发生巨大的变化,但却又不知从何开始。
-Andy
--安迪
It is completely natural to feel anxious when all of your friends are coupling up, which they seem to be doing right on schedule. But I'd ask you to pause your churning mind for a moment and ask yourself one simple question: Whose schedule are you on? Do you want to be in a relationship because you're ready to explore life with another human being? Or do you want it because you're the only one who doesn't have it? Does your happiness truly depend on having a mate, or is it this year's iPhone?
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