另外,与陌生人交谈时碰到他们可能会让对方感到尴尬。在很多欧洲南部的文化中,轻拍对方的肩膀或握一下对方的手臂表示共情是可以接受的。
In Finland, for most people physical contact while talking even among friends is not so common. Finns do not give kisses on the cheek when greeting each other. Mostly the greeting is saying hi or shaking hands (even with women). People who know each other and are friends or family greet each other with a hug.
不过在芬兰,对大多数人来说,即使是朋友之间交谈,身体接触也不常见。芬兰人互相问候时不会亲吻脸颊。大多数的问候就是打打招呼或者握手(哪怕是问候女性)。互相之间认识的朋友或家人问候时会拥抱。
4 隐私别探问
People do not talk about their salaries or financial status and it is very uncommon (and sometimes even considered rude) to ask even friends about how much they earn. It is simply considered a part of their personal space. No one comments about each other’s appearance or clothes unless it is something positive or someone asks for an opinion.
芬兰人不会谈论他们的薪水或经济状况,甚至连朋友之间都很少见问对方挣多少钱。这是个人空间的一部分。也没有人评价对方的外表或者衣着,除非是积极的评论或者是对方在认真地征求意见。
In the same way, it is totally unacceptable to ask married friends or couples about if and when they want to have children and how many of them they want. The logic behind this is that people will tell things themselves anyways if they want to talk about them. A lot of unwritten social rules in the Finnish society represent the principle of “Live and Let Live”.
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