翻遍礼仪典籍的历史学家注意到,握手作为现代的问候方式直到19世纪中期才出现,当时握手被认为是一种有点不得体的姿势,只有在朋友之间才能使用。但既然莎士比亚在几百年前就把握手写进了书中,那么这中间发生了什么呢?
DEFINING THE HANDSHAKE
握手的内涵
According to author Torbjörn Lundmark in his Tales of Hi and Bye: Greeting and Parting Rituals Around the World, the problem comes in differing definitions of the handshake. The early handshakes mentioned above were part of making deals or burying the hatchet; Shalmaneser III’s throne base references him honoring a treaty with the Babylonian king during a revolt. In the Iliad, Diomedes and Glaucus shook hands when they realized they were “guest-friends,” and Diomedes proclaimed “Let’s not try to kill each other.” Shakespeare was similarly referencing settlement of a conflict.
根据作家托尔伯恩·德马克的著作《打招呼的故事:世界各地欢迎和告别的礼仪》,问题来自握手定义的差别。上述的早期握手是达成协议或和解的一部分:撒缦以色三世的宝座上刻画的是他在一次叛乱中履行和巴比伦国王的合约;在《伊利亚德》中,狄俄墨得斯和格劳克斯在意识到他们是“客人朋友”时握了手,狄俄墨得斯宣称“让我们不要再与彼此为敌”;同样,莎士比亚也是在描述解决冲突的场面。
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