现在 43岁的Wendy Underwood20年前嫁给了现在44岁的丈夫Kurtis Kolt,这对夫妻一起办了一张信用卡。
"We thought that was the sort of thing married people should do," she says. "We learned pretty quickly that we both had very different approaches to money. I was brought up to believe you do without everything to be able to pay off debt. My approach to that credit card was, I'll have beans on toast for a week to make sure I pay off that balance at the end of the month."
她说:“我们以为结了婚的人都该这样,但我们很快发现我们的金钱观很不一样。我从小就被教育要尽一切努力还清债务。我使用信用卡的方法是吃一周加豆的吐司也要确保月底时还清账单。”
Her husband's outlook was more "casual"—he would make a payment but didn't feel compelled to pay the full amount.
而她丈夫的态度就更“随意”一点,他会还款,但觉得不需要勉强自己还清全部欠款。
That card wasn't in use for long. "If we had kept that credit card and added all our finances together, I honestly don't think we would still be married," Underwood says. "We just saw very quickly that it was a big source of tension for us."
这张卡很久都没用了,Underwood说:“如果我们还用那张卡,把所有钱都放一起,说实话我觉得我们早就离婚了,我们只是很快发现了这是我们矛盾的主要根源。”
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