交际应该是一项热身活动、是培养感情以让他在你提出要求之前对你产生更多的好感。在你最初开始交往到你提出要求的时间间隔应该是六个月。
4. Prepare a short self-introduction.
准备好一小段自我介绍
Forget the 15-second "elevator speech" you've heard about. In less than nine seconds you should give the benefit of what you do, but not the title. If you say something like "I make sure people have a roof over their heads," it will arouse curiosityand encourage them to ask a question. It's also a good idea to link your self-introduction to the event.
忘记你听说的那些15秒钟的电梯演讲,你应该在九秒之内介绍你工作能够带来的利益,而不仅仅是工作的头衔。如果你这样说“我保证别人有生存之地“,那马上就会引起别人的好奇,促使他们向你提问。在你的自我介绍中加入实例也是个好方法。
5. Focus on the other person.
将谈话重点放在对方身上。
Studies show that when you ask people questions about themselves, they come away from the conversation with a more favorable impression of you. Then again, don't play 20 questions. If they aren't interested in engaging at all, have a polite exit strategy and move on. And remember, if you are uncomfortable talking with strangers, your new contact may be just as uncomfortable.
研究表明,在谈话中如果你向别人询问有关他们自己的事情,他们会马上对你有好感。再次提醒,不要问太多问题。如果他们根本没兴趣与你谈话,那就想一个礼貌的对策,然后离开。并且要记住,如果你对于和陌生人交谈感到不舒服,那么你的新朋友也会有同样不舒服的感觉。
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