很多人(包括我自己)也许都会一直把背挺直的站着坐着。也许有些人觉得脊椎末端是在脖子那,因此往往会往前伸脖子,但其实脊椎的末端是在后脑勺这边。所以挺直脊椎,让自己看起来更精神吧。
16. Don’t stand too close
别站的太近
One of the things we learned from Seinfeld is that everybody gets weirded out by a close-talker. Let people have their personal space, don’t invade it.
我们都知道对方谈话者如果站得太近是非常奇怪的一件事,尊重别人的空间,别侵犯。
17. Mirror
模仿
Often when you get along with a person, when the two of you get a good connection, you will start to mirror each other unconsciously. That means that you mirror the other person’s body language a bit. To make the connection better you can try a bit of proactive mirroring. If he leans forward, you might lean forward. If she holds her hands on her thighs, you might do the same. But don’t react instantly and don’t mirror every change in body language. Then weirdness will ensue.
往往你和别人开始接触,如果关系不错,你就会不自觉地开始模仿她,也就是或多或少效仿别人的肢体语言。如果关系再亲密点,你可以更主动点,人家向前倾,你也可以向前倾。如果她把手放在大腿上,那你也这样好了,只是别模仿的太频繁。
18. Keep a good attitude
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