A pile of dirty dishes, leaving the toilet seat up and coming home drunk from the pub are just some of the scenarios that can spark blazing rows up and down the country.

一堆脏盘子，马桶坐便圈没放下，从酒吧喝得烂醉回家，这些事都可能让你俩吵得天翻地覆、一塌糊涂。

In order to help couples squabble more successfully, leading lawyer Jonathan Herring has penned a book called How To Argue.

业内顶尖律师乔纳森·赫林(Jonathan Herring)写了一部名为《如何讲理》，帮助情侣如何在和另一半争吵时占上风。

In his entertaining, no-holds-barred guide, the Oxford-based professor reveals everything Brits need to know about bickering and tips on how to emerge triumphant.

在他的书中，这位牛津大学教授毫无保留地传授了所有英国人吵嘴需要知道的事以及如何获胜的诀窍。

 

 

Before bumping heads with a loved one, Jonathan says it's vital to fully think through what it is you want to say.

乔纳森说，在和爱人争吵前，想清楚你想谈的问题是什么至关重要。

'Make sure you know the essential points you want to make,' he said. 'Before starting an argument think carefully about what it is you are arguing about and what it is you want. This may sound obvious. But it's critically important. '

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