“你一定要清楚自己想说的关键问题。开始吵架前,仔细考虑好你在吵什么,你想要的是什么。这也许听起来是显而易见的事,但其实这极为重要。
After considering the strengths and weaknesses of your points, Jonathan says the timing and location of your quarrel is crucial.
乔纳森说,考虑好自己观点的优势和劣势后,吵架的时间和地点也十分重要。
'Think carefully before you start to argue: is this the time; is this the place?' he said. “想吵架前,仔细想想,是对的时间吗?对的地点吗?
Many people lose arguments because they get caught up in the heat of the moment and don't fully listen to what it is the other person is saying.
很多人在争吵中败下阵来是因为当时被怒火冲昏了头脑,根本没好好听另一半说了些什么。
To be victorious in a feud, Jonathan says you should let the other person do most of the talking.
乔纳森说,想要在吵架中获胜,你得让对方畅所欲言。
'It sounds silly, but you should aim to listen for 75 per cent of the argument and only speak for 25 per cent of it,' he said. 'If you listen intently you'll be able to beat their line of argument more easily.'
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