我了解到的是,这个充满活力的女人认为,为了让她看起来很幸福,她不能觉得悲伤。对她来说,悲伤等不愉快的情绪在生活中是不允许出现在一个幸福的人身上的。但是这不是真正的人生体验。
If we dont allow a natural progression of the resulting unpleasant feelings we will never fully experience and embrace the joy in life. Thats right; where there is black, there is white, its just how nature works. There are two complementary forces that make up all aspects of life and we must allow and accept their balance.
如果我们不允许一个不愉快情绪的自然的产生,我们就无法体验和拥抱生活的乐趣。正是这样;当有黑暗的地方就有光明,这才是自然的。生活的各个方面都有两个互补的力量,我们必须允许和接受它们的平衡。
This is the understanding that my client was missing.
这是我的顾客对生活漏掉的领悟。
And it begs the question: Happiness what is it, really?
它引出了一个问题:幸福到底是什么?
In simplest form, happiness is a state of being. Sure, our circumstances influence the level of happiness we can access, but happiness is within us, not around us. We all have it, but we each define it differently and have varying expectations of ourselves and our own abilities to be happy. And that is what causes the confusion.
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