所以当爸爸给小汤米穿错衣服,做坏早餐然后开始枕头大战的时候,难道妈妈还是要咬牙切齿一言不发吗?
'Yes - absolutely she should!' says Janis-Norton. 'And the gritted teeth part comes because mums assume they know best - but actually none of us is perfect. We’ve got weaknesses too.
“是的,她当然要这样!”诺顿说。妈妈会对上述行为咬牙切齿是因为她们觉得自己知道怎么做是最好的,但是实际上人无完人。我们每个人都有缺点。
'We’re not doing it right all the time. So really we shouldn’t be judging the dads!'
“人总会犯错。所以我们真的不要质疑爸爸的判断!”
Despite the title of her book, the Calmer, Easier, Happier Boys author, is at pains to point out that keeping calm is not always the goal. In fact, she actively encourages play-fighting for boys
虽然这本书名叫《更冷静,更简单,更快乐的男孩》,不过,该书作者煞费苦心地指出遇事冷静并非其目的。事实上,她很积极地鼓励男孩儿打打闹闹。
'Mums generally don’t have an interest in play fighting and they worry someone's going to get hurt, or feelings will get hurt, or clothes will get ripped or something will get damaged.
‘妈妈通常都对那些打打闹闹没多大兴趣。他们要么担心孩子们身心受伤,要么担心衣服被撕烂又或者东西被摔坏。’
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