3. Put yourself into their shoes
3.设身处地为他人着想
Listen to their story and offer your support. It’s so easy to avoid people without asking them why they wanted to talk to you. Maybe that person needs your help or advice. Put yourself into their shoes and try to help them and cheer them up; you will also feel good. A bad conversationalist is not always so bad.
倾听他们的故事,给他们提供支持。不问人们为什么想和你说话,就躲避他们,是非常容易地事情。或许那个人需要你的帮助或者建议。设身处地为他们着想,尝试去帮助他们,给他们打气;你也会感觉不错。不善谈的人并不总是那么不好。
4. Try to listen
4.努力倾听
Another good way to deal with a bad conversationalist is to pay attention and listen to them carefully. When you pay attention, you catch details that you would miss when you’re distracted. Also, focus on the person’s body language and expressions and you’ll decode the full message and know the person’s intentions.
应对不善谈的人另一个好办法就是集中注意力看着他们,仔细听他们说话。当你集中注意力的时候,你就能捕捉到在你分心时候会错过的细节。而且,集中注意力看一下他们的肢体语言和表达,你就能完全听懂所有的信息,知道这个人的目的。
5. Ask questions
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