Learn something new. It can be a sport, a language, an instrument or a game that instills a sense of achievement, self-confidence and resilience. But here, too, be realistic about how long this may take and be sure you have the time needed.
学些新东西。可以是能够带来成就感、自信心和复原力的一项运动、一门语言、一样乐器或者一种游戏。但请再次注意,要对可能花费多长时间有现实的认知,并确定自己能抽出足够多的时间。
Choose to accept yourself, flaws and all. Rather than imperfections and failures, focus on your positive attributes and achievements. The loveliest people I know have none of the external features of loveliness but shine with the internal beauty of caring, compassion and consideration of others.
选择接受你自己,接受你的缺点以及全部。聚焦于自己的积极属性和成就,而非缺陷和失败。我认识的最可爱的人,没有任何关乎可爱的外在特征,而是因为体贴、有同理心、为他人着想而散发出内在美。
Practice resilience. Rather than let loss, stress, failure or trauma overwhelm you, use them as learning experiences and steppingstones to a better future. Remember the expression: When life hands you a lemon, make lemonade.
训练复原力。不要被损失、压力、失败和创伤击垮,而是要把它们当成前车之鉴和通往更美好未来的垫脚石。记住一句话:如果生活给了你柠檬,那就用它做柠檬水吧。
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