我们的家庭温馨,生活方式健康,这都是我们努力奋斗的结果。一想到可能会失去这一切,我就无法忍受。但问题是:我们并没有好好谈过这件事,只是以自己的方式独自应对。
Coleen says
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I think the worst thing you can do is not talk about it and shove it under the carpet because it's not going to just go away. It must be very hard for your husband and he's clearly trying to put a brave face on things and be positive, and I think it's good that he still wants to be with people instead of retreating into himself.
我认为对这件事避而不谈是最糟糕的做法,因为问题不会自行得到解决。你的丈夫肯定很难过,但显然,他正努力勇敢地面对这件事并积极应对,我认为他在这种时候仍愿意与人交往而非自我封闭是一件好事。
Sadly, you're not alone in this - it happens to a lot of people, especially in the current economic climate. I'm wondering why you don't want people to know? To me, it feels as if you're embarrassed and worried about being judged by your friends, and you shouldn't feel like that. You don't have to impress real friends - they go through it with you and they will be supportive.
不幸的是,你并非一个人--很多人都会遇到这种情况,尤其是在当前的经济环境之下。我很好奇,你为什么不想让其他人知道?给我的感觉是,你觉得失业很丢脸,担心朋友因此说三道四,你不应这么想。你无需事事都给真朋友留下好印象--他们会支持你,陪你度过这一难关。
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