5. Is my debt your debt? Would you be willing to bail me out?

我的债务你是否会共同承担？你愿意帮我还债吗？

It's important to know how your partner feels about financial self-sufficiency and whether he or she expects you to keep your resources separate, said Frederick Hertz, a divorce lawyer. Disclosing debts is very important. Equally, if there is a serious discrepancy between your income and your partner's, Dr Scuka recommended creating a basic budget according to proportional incomes. Many couples fail to discuss sharing finances, though it is crucial, he said.

离婚律师弗雷德里克·赫兹称，了解伴侣如何看待财务独立，以及ta是否希望分账是非常重要的。公开债务也很重要。若你和伴侣的收入差异很大，斯库卡博士会建议你们根据收入比例设立基本预算。他表示，尽管分摊财务的问题十分重要，许多夫妇却未曾就该问题进行过讨论。

6. What's the most you would be willing to spend on a car, a couch, shoes?

你最愿意把钱花在什么方面，汽车、沙发还是鞋子？

Couples should make sure they are on the same page in terms of financial caution or recklessness. Buying a car is a great indicator, according to Hertz. Couples can also frame this question around what they spend reckless amounts of money on, he said.

双方应确保在财务谨慎或冒进程度上的一致性。赫兹表示，买车就是一个很好的参考指标。情侣还可以根据他们会在什么物品上胡乱花钱设置问题。

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