Gary Chapman's 1992 book, "The 5 Love Languages," introduced this means of categorizing expressions of love to strengthen a marriage. Ms Martinez hands her premarriage clients a list of the five love languages: affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch. She asks them to mark their primary and secondary languages and what they think is their partner's, and discuss them. Mr Eisenberg said that a couple needs to work out how to nurture the relationship, in a way specific to them.
加里·查普曼1992年出版的书籍《五种爱情语言》引入了区分爱情表达方式以巩固婚姻关系的方法。马丁内斯女士向其即将步入婚姻殿堂的客户给出了这五种爱情语言:肯定、愉悦时光、接受礼物、为对方服务和身体接触。她请这些客户标出他们最喜欢和其次喜爱的语言,以及他们认为伴侣最常使用的爱情语言,并就此进行讨论。艾森伯格先生称,情侣需要弄清如何以他们特有的方式增进彼此的关系。
11. What do you admire about me, and what are your pet peeves?
我身上哪些东西你比较欣赏,哪些让你无法忍受?
Can you imagine the challenges ever outweighing the admiration? If so, what would you do? Anne Klaeysen, a leader of the New York Society for Ethical Culture, said that couples rarely consider that second question. Ideally, marriage is a life commitment, she said, and it's not enough to just "click together," as many couples describe their relationship. A marriage must go deeper than that original "click."
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