我们又这样过了6年。不断地尝试之后,我们失败了,最终还是无法修补我们的婚姻。我和前夫都发现:我们在一起比我俩为了孩子而呆在同一屋檐下更令人难以忍受。
When we first talked about separating a year ago, the room felt heavy with guilt, regret and shame. If I am being honest, I still have lots of guilt, even a little regret. But I had to let go of the shame. I needed to stop taking other people's advice: "Try this counselor," "Take a vacation together" or "We went through tough times, too. You'll get over it." It felt like a form of shaming. Maybe it wasn't ...
一年前,当我们第一次谈及分居之时,整个房间都充斥着内疚、后悔和羞耻。说实话,现在我还是很内疚,甚至有点后悔,但我已经不感到羞耻了。我不能再接受他人的建议:"去看看这位顾问吧,""一起出去旅游吧"或是"我们也经历过困难时刻,你们能够克服的!"就好像这是一件很羞耻的事情。但或许这件事本不羞耻呢?
Through the process, I realized everyone's relationships were different. I haven't told anyone every single detail as to why my marriage was falling apart simply because I didn't want to. And that is OK. I don't owe that to anyone.
在这个过程中,我意识到每个人的感情情况都是不同的。我还未将我们婚姻失败的细节告诉其他人,只是因为我不想这么做。这没关系啊,我又不欠任何人离婚的理由。
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