They just wanted to have fun, to laugh more; to not have every request quashed by a negative.
他们只是想要玩得开心,想要笑得更多;不想所有的要求都被拒绝而已。
They also, I think, really started to understand why I create boundaries in their lives, because as much as they don’t like them, they are lost without them.
我认为,他们也开始真正地明白,为什么生活中我不让他们做一些事情,因为他们越不喜欢它们,却越不能离开它们。
As I go to put them to bed on the last day, I find them sitting in a circle, doing a jigsaw together.
在最后一天当我让他们上床睡觉时,我发现他们坐成一个圈,正在玩七巧板。
"You’re playing together!" I say.
我说:"你们在一起玩!"
"Yes, can we stay up late?"asks Jerry.
Jerry说:"是的,我们能晚点睡觉吗?"
"No," I tell them.
我告诉他们说:"不可以。"
They all troop off — but looking mightily relieved, it has to be said.
他们匆匆散去,但是似乎强烈地松了口气,因为这是必须要说的。
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