会毁掉你的谈话的坏习惯_BEC初级作文

会毁掉你的谈话的坏习惯

建议：把你的声音想象成是在让你的听众乘坐一趟过山车。你是否正在形成一次单调，无聊的旅程？试着为你这些特别的观众创造一次愉快的过山车旅程；增加一些语调的升降，变化语速。也可以改变声调强调关键词。

同时，私下里录下自己的声音。用你正常的声音再读一次这部分然后重播。如果你以前从没有录过自己的声音，所听到的将会让你大吃一惊！

3. Are You a Predictable Talker? The Predictable Talker lives in the serious and literal world. If they get up to use the restroom, and you ask them where they are going, they will always respond, "to the restroom." Everything they say is predictable; they'll never surprise you with something unexpected. In contrast, a Playful Talker may respond to that question with a number of unpredictable playful responses. For example, "I thought I'd leave you with the bill," or "I'm going to pickup that girl,

"or "I'm trying to escape." The best conversation is playful and unpredictable; Predictable Talkers have trouble playing!

Suggestion: Train your mind to start considering the unexpected responses. Next time someone asks you a question or makes a comment, mentally think about what response would be unexpected or unpredictable (within reason!). Once in a while, try one of these unexpected comments and see how you do. You may surprise yourself.