4 Stop caring about what everyone else wants for you.
别活在他人的期许中
Unfortunately, just before you take your first step on the righteous journey to pursue your dreams, people around you, even the ones who deeply care for you, will usually give you awful advice. It’s not because they have evil intentions. It’s because they don’t understand what your dreams, passions and life goals mean to you. They don’t understand that, to you, the reward is worth the risk.
很不幸,在你刚刚准备启程追逐自己的梦想时,周围总会冒出些人给你一些不靠谱的建议,十分关心你的人也不例外。因为他们不理解你的梦想、激情和生活目标对于你的意义。他们不理解,对你来说,为了获取美好的成果,值得去冒险。
So they try to protect you by shielding you from the possibility of failure, which, in effect, also shields you from the possibility of making your dreams a reality. As our friend Steve Jobs says:“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”
所以他们试图减少你失败的可能,来保护你,其实这种做法也让你实现梦想的可能性大大减小。就像我们的朋友斯蒂芬·乔布斯说的那样:“你的时间是有限的,所以别浪费在过别人的生活上面。不要被教条所困,那是活在别人的思考成果中。别让他人的言论淹没了你的心声和直觉。只有你的心声和直觉会告诉你,你真正想成为什么样的人,其余的都是次要的。”
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