改掉十个单词提高幸福指数_BEC初级作文

改掉十个单词提高幸福指数

“我天生就笨，不可能成为职业运动员。” 你知道吗？我看过只有一条腿的残疾人在劲舞锦标赛中出色演出，而且获胜了。所以一切皆有可能。需要的只是时间，练习和你的投入。在决心面前，天赋不堪一击。这么说好不好——“如果我花时间精力的话，成为职业运动员是有可能的。”

8. Never

决不

“I could never sing as well as her.” Again, you probably could. Even if today, the sound of you singing in the shower sends birds spiraling disoriented into the ground, that’s just today. You can improve, you can get better, and you can keep getting better for as long as you want to. She probably took hours and hours of voice lessons, so you’re not being fair to yourself. “I could sing as well as her or better if I put my mind to it.”

“我绝不可能唱得比她好。” 又来了，你为什么不可能？即使今天你在浴室唱歌的声音把小鸟都吓得没头乱飞，那也只是今天罢了。你可以进步，做得更好，你还可以继续保持进步——只要你愿意。她可能上了很久的声乐课，你干嘛要自暴自弃呢？所以要这么说“只要有心，我也可以和她唱得一样动听，甚至更好。”

9. Smack

抽你

In addition to limiting words, violent words can bring unnecessary negativity into your life. “I’m gonna smack you if you don’t shut up right now!” If that’s really true, then that’s cool, you’re speaking authentically. But I found myself saying this when what I really meant was, “I’m feeling upset and frustrated because I can’t concentrate with a lot of noise around. Could you please be quiet? I’d really appreciate it.” When I rephrased my vocabulary this way, the people around me felt a lot more considered and respected.