分手不是世界末日：分手后绝不要做的8件事_BEC初级作文

分手不是世界末日：分手后绝不要做的8件事

分手会带来空虚。每当你想和前任联系时，问一个亲密的朋友，能否改为给他/她打电话。向一帮朋友和家人寻求支援，让他们帮助你填补那些通常会和那个他/她度过的时光。许多人在分手后感到失落，并不是因为他们多想念前任，而是因为他们的很多日常习惯都曾经只围绕着那一个人。给自己一些时间，适应单身生活。

5. Beg for reconciliation.

乞求复合

Yes, dogs can get away with begging. But you can't. Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be in no relationship at all. Instead of clinging to lost hope, find a wise friend who can help you walk through the reasons why you’re having a hard time letting go.

是的，狗狗们的乞求也许管用，但是你不能这样做。也许你还不明白你们为什么会分手；也许你认为你们分开的理由是错误的；也许你宁愿维持这段糟糕的关系也不愿意单身一人。与其纠缠于这些无谓的念想，不如找一个有智慧的朋友，他/她会帮你认识到为什么要放手，让那些艰难的时刻过去。

Don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret.