研究者──即便是那些取样时小心谨慎的研究者──一直面临的问题是,任何此类调查都要求那些很可能对伴侣撒了谎的人坦白自己的越轨行为。研究者一般认为,不忠行为的实际数字要比调查结果所显示的高。
It should also be emphasized that cheating in the U.S. isn't epidemic or inevitable, for either sex. Surveys consistently find that by far the majority of respondents value monogamy and think that infidelity is harmful. And if you believe the General Social Survey's finding that 14% of women are cheating, keep in mind that 86% aren't.
但也应该强调,在美国,无论对男性还是女性来说,欺骗都既非普遍行为,也非不可避免。多次调查均一致显示,到目前为止,多数受访者都珍视一夫一妻制,并认为不忠行为是有害的。假如你相信“综合社会调查”结果是真实的,即14%的女性有欺骗行为,那么同时也请记住86%的女性并没有欺骗伴侣。
Still, even though survey accuracy is difficult to achieve and experts are by no means unanimous, it would appear that women are, indeed, catching up. In my own work as a psychologist and in my social circle, I see more women not only having affairs but actively seeking them out. Their reasons are familiar: validation of their attractiveness, emotional connection, appreciation, ego - not to mention the thrill of a shiny new relationship, unburdened by the long slog through the realities of coupledom.
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