生活里，你需要的是创造自己的爱情，定义自己的意义，保护自己的灵感。这样的过程是从内到外的，而不是在外面寻找的。只要忠于自己的价值观，追求自己的激情，每天学习更多点，以及尽你所能帮别人，你就可以做到这些。

4. Stop letting negative people drain you.

别让消极的人影响到你。

You might think being alone makes you lonely, but that’s not entirely true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest place in the world.

你也许觉得独处会孤单，这不完全正确。身边围着错误的人可是世界上最最孤单的事情了。

Before you diagnose yourself as an unhappy person, first be sure that you are not simply surrounded by negative people constantly trying to bring you down to their level.

判断自己是不是幸福之前，倒不如先看看周围有没有充斥着那些消极的人们，他们会渐渐影响到你哦。

5. Stop belittling your efforts and your progress.

别再轻视你的努力和进步。

Appreciate where you are now and keep fighting for where you want to be tomorrow. You are not a failure until you give up on yourself. Keep going!

欣赏现在的自己，为想成为的那个自己而奋斗吧。只要不放弃自己，你都不会是失败者，加油！

Hard times may hold you down for a while but they will not last forever, and when all is said and done, you will be able to stand even taller than those who didn’t earn it.

【是时候做出改变了：不要再做和开始去做的5件事】相关文章：

★ 一种新的减肥饮食法火遍国外,名字挺奇怪

★ 一人食正彻底改变我们的饮食

★ 外媒：不要指责D&G广告模特了

★ 另一半不想听到的那些事

★ 亚马逊推出信用卡了，面向信用不太好的人

★ 想成为烹饪达人？一定要避开这些误区

★ “颈椎体”走红网络 中英文版各领风骚

★ 《唐顿庄园》制作人准备导演新剧！又是一部神剧？

★ 关于樱花你可能不知道的10件事

★ 能够对抗抑郁的喷鼻剂