你首先得爱自己
我们知道你以前听过这句话,你会再去听一遍——为了和别人真正拥有一段成功的有意义的恋情,首先得爱自己。这听起来像是出自一本自助书,但是请相信我们,这是真的。如果你不爱惜尊重自己,那么你怎么能期望别人这样做呢?你越是因自身而快乐,就越容易吸引那些值得你爱并好好待你的人。
GO WITH YOUR GUT – IT'S USUALLY RIGHT
The most important lesson you can learn before you settle down is to listen to yourself. It's OK to ask for advice and get other people's input, but ultimately you're the only one who knows what's best for you. If you're in a relationship that's progressing quickly and something doesn't feel right, don't ignore those feelings. You don't have to make any rash decisions, but you should also take any doubts that come up seriously. And if you are having doubts about where the relationship is going, you need to address them. Think seriously about whether or not you're happy and if you're not, it may be time to move on.
跟着直觉走——这通常是正确的
在你安定下来之前你可以学习的最重要功课是倾听自己。可以寻求建议以及得到他人指导,但最终你是那个唯一知道什么对你最好的人。如果你处在一段进展很快的关系中,有点不大对劲,不要忽略那些感觉。你不需要做任何鲁莽的决定,但你也应该严肃对待出现的任何怀疑。如果你对这段关系的走向有疑问,你需要提出来。认真思考你是否快乐,如果你不是,也许是时候离开了。
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