好朋友坏朋友：6招识破“自私”的朋友_BEC初级作文

好朋友坏朋友：6招识破“自私”的朋友

自私的人很清楚，要是言行举止任由自己的性子，他很难交到朋友。所以，他会表现得非常友好热情。一开始，他很愿意了解你、很用心地听你说话。然后，他的热情就会慢慢变淡，只会在需要你时才出现。

He usually brings lots of conversation to the table, and always has something to say. He does that to imply an open minded, interesting, and interested personality, but you can sense that he’s not really interested in any of those subjects; he just uses them as a cover for an empty take-everything-I-can personality. It’s like a black hole—you can’t expect to get love from a person who can only take.

这种人通常谈资甚广，任何话题都能插上两句。他这么做是为了表现得性格开放风趣，但你却能感觉到他其实并不是真的喜欢谈话话题，反倒显得是对他那“假大空”性格的欲盖弥彰罢了。这就像一个“黑洞”——只进不出，你不可能从这种人身上得到任何真心回馈的。

BONUS-TIP – The Most Dangerous Trick In His Bag

附加建议：自私之人最“腹黑”的伎俩

The most dangerous trick in the selfish person’s bag is the confusion he tries to create in your mind. He tries to get you to doubt your value as a friend. He wants you to think you’re not cool enough, and need to try harder. This is a pseudo-rejection that the selfish person gives you in small doses.