There are a couple of C’s involved in burying the hatchet:
下面这些C字关键词是你“放下仇恨”时应该做到的:
Categorize
归类
Many a time, we are not aware of why we hate someone and continue to walk on a path that disturbs one’s mental and physical well-being. We should be able to recognize the pattern that arises when we come across a certain human being. Once we are able to categorize the pattern, we can move to the next step.
很多时候,我们都没有意识到到底为什么讨厌这个人,却仍固执的怨恨着,扰乱着自己的精神和身体健康。遇到某个人的时候我们需要能够归类到底该采取何种方式对待他,一旦能够归类了,我们就可以到下一个步骤。
Cause
缘由
We should try to search within ourselves with regard to what and how the individual has hurt us, and why we hate them. Finding a cause helps us to bring closure within ourselves, and we can open up to discussion within the self, and even with the person whom we hate.
我们要从自身出发找出到底这个人是如何以及怎么伤害到我们的,以及我们为什么讨厌他们。找到根源能让自己停止纠结下去,我们可以和别人甚至和讨厌的那个人去开诚布公的讨论。
Confront
面对
Coming face-to-face with the person whom one hates is a challenge, but confronting the individual will lead to peace of mind and a sound sleep at night. Brave up and face that person.
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