Despite the money saved, however, when young adults move back in family relationships can become strained. “Being around my parents so much was hard at first,” says Horn. “Your parents are completely different from your friends at school or roommates your age. I started to feel like I was in high school again at certain points.”
那些青壮年们一搬回家,虽说省去了租房的钱,但和父母的关系可能就会变得紧张起来。“一开始我那无处不在的父母真的让我倍感煎熬,”霍恩说道。“他们跟我学校同龄的朋友、室友完全就是两回事。某些时候我都怀疑自己好像又回到高中时代了。”
Privacy, house rules, and family roles all come into question when young adults cohabitate with parents. “The biggest obstacle for young people when moving back home is understanding their role as the adult child,” says life coach and author Tanya White. “Life is different when moving back home as an adult. Your roles and responsibilities change.”
当跟父母处在同一屋檐下,无论是隐私,家规还是家庭角色都会让人纠结。“年轻人搬回家住会遇到的最大挑战就是得像个成年人一样去扮演他们作为儿女的角色,”生活导师兼作家谭雅.怀特这样说,“作为一个成年人搬回父母那里,生活会变得截然不同。你的角色和责任也会发生改变。”
Dr. Susan Newman, author of “Under One Roof Again: All Grown Up and (Re)learning to Live Together Happily,” agrees with White. “For the majority of young adults returning to live at home, the major stumbling block is falling back into the mommy-daddy-child roles,” says Newman. “Many young adults who return home do not assume responsibility in ways that assist parents and make the living arrangement more equitable. As a result, tensions build where there doesn’t have to be any.”Luckily, tension can be prevented.
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