选择生活伴侣并不容易。亲密关系都不易形成:不仅是恋爱关系,朋友关系和亲人关系也是如此。选择真正在乎你而你又非常喜欢的人。如果你当真在乎,那请在他们的生活里保持积极乐观。亲密朋友不会随着年龄的增长而变得越来越多,相反,你甚至会失去一些朋友。但你也不必太介意,毕竟生活中不是所有人都能一直陪伴身边;离开的姑且离开,现有的更应珍惜。
13. Be Prepared To Deal With Changes in Relationships
关系有变时,要懂得处理
Look at your time with exes and be thankful; even though it didn’t work out, at least you got to experience it and learn from it. You rolled the dice and lost, but at least you took a chance! Don’t think that just because something wasn’t meant to be for your entire life doesn’t mean it didn’t add value and was right where you needed to be at the time.
回望与前任的时光,请心存感激;虽然你们有缘无分,但至少你拥有过、收获过。虽然赌输了,但你至少抓住了机会!不要因为事情未尽人意就片面否定当时的价值与意义。
In your 20s, especially if you have a family, it gets harder and harder to spend time with friends because of so many different time demands. You will be pulled in every direction and it’s up to you to decide what your priorities are. Having a couple of close friends you can rely on can make a difference in your life. As they say “shared joy is doubled, shared sorrow is halved.”
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