2)You know yourself, but you make yourself wrong
你了解自己,但是还是让自己错了
In this situation, you know yourself and what you want, but you simply make yourself wrong. You tell yourself, "Yeah, I want to change, but I'm wrong to feel that way." Or "I'm lucky to have a job, so I shouldn't rock the boat" or "I have so much -- I should just feel blessed and not complain." So many people (women in particular) doubt the validity of their feelings or repress their deepest longings because they think they're wrong to have them. Until you can make yourself "right," you can't find peace or joy.
在这种情况下,你了解自己,也知道自己的所需,但是你只是让自己错了。你告诉自己,“唉,我想改变,但有那样的感觉是不对的,”或者“我够幸运有一份工作,所以我不能破坏现状”或者“我有的已经够多了——我应该觉得感恩而不是抱怨。”很多人(尤其是女人)怀疑他们感觉的正确性,或者压抑最深的渴望,因为他们觉得他们不该拥有这些。只有你让自己“正确了”,你才能找到宁静和快乐。
3) You've lost the courage to act
你已经失去了行动的勇气
For many who know what they want, they've lost the courage to take hard action. We've been seduced by some erroneous concept that life should be easy. Where did we get that idea? Making life change isn't easy, but it's so worth it, especially if you hate where you are today. It takes courage, grit and commitment to bring about lasting change, and you can do it, but only if you decide to connect to your own internal power, courage and fortitude.
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