Your friend’s out of work. But while she scrambles to make ends meet and worries about the future, you’re heading into a stable workplace every day and collecting a steady paycheck.Her predicament puts your cranky boss and overloaded inbox in perspective, and you’re doing everything you can to provide her with leads. You also try to mind your manners when she opens up about the details of her search process.
你的朋友正在找工作。当她还在整天量入为出,为自己的未来担忧时;你却已经拥有了一份稳定的工作和收入。她的窘境让你那脾气暴躁的老板和堆积如山的邮件看上去也没那么讨厌了。所以你想方设法给她提供一些建议,也试着在她细述求职烦恼时注意自己的言行。
Here are a few things it’s probably better not to say so you don’t compound her feelings of frustration and isolation:
为了照顾朋友的情绪,使她不会感到沮丧或孤独,以下是你应该注意避免的五大禁忌语:
1. “How’s the job search going?” (again, and again)“
你的工作找得怎么样了?”(一遍又一遍地问)
It’s fine to make conversation and inquire into your friend’s well-being — but don’t ask incessantly.
你可以和朋友交流,关心以下她的近况,但别总是不停地询问。
Some job search days are better than others, but your friend will be on the market every day until she isn’t anymore. If she hasn’t told you she has a job and is starting next week, don’t expect to be provided with updates every hour. In fact, only ask if you have something to offer.
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