求职季有些日子会更容易找到工作,但你的朋友在找到工作前每天都会去人才市场报到的。所以除非她主动和你说她下个星期就要开始上班了,别时时都让她给你汇报最新情况。如果你可以有些工作机会或咨询可以提供给她的话则除外。
2. “Here’s what you’re doing wrong…”
“你在这些方面做得不够……”
If your friend asks you for advice, feel free to offer tips and critique her strategy. If she doesn’t ask, don’t attempt to tell her what she’s doing wrong — because you might add to her annoyance or, worse yet, give her misleading advice.
如果你的朋友征求你对于她求职的意见,那么你可以畅所欲言。如果她没有主动问你,别总是试着告诉她哪儿做错了。这样会让你的朋友很不快,或者更糟糕的是——你可能会给她一个错误的建议。
3. “I know a guy who does the same thing you do. He can hardly tie his shoes, but he was hired within a week of graduation for a six-figure salary. You should think about doing that.”
“我认识一个人,和你专业一样。他连系鞋带都不会,却在毕业一个星期以内找到了一份年薪几十万的工作。你应该学一学他找工作的方法。”
This story can be inspiring if you end it by handing your friend the name and phone number of the manager who hired the guy. But if you aren’t planning to do that, it’s not a good story.
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