总是一个人？孤单时你可以做的9件事_BEC初级作文

总是一个人？孤单时你可以做的9件事

在这个“密切联系”的社会，“隔离”却讽刺性地成了一个新标志。随着短信、推特、脸谱、邮件及电话的普及，人与人之间的联系前所未有地频繁密集。但问题是，所有这些通讯方式都忽略了社交中的“面对面接触”元素。

This can lead to situations like someone observing, “I have 6,000 friends on Facebook, 4,822 Twitter followers, and who knows how many people watching me on social media…and I don’t have one person I can call to go out for the night!” Try getting out and talking to your neighbors, the cashier at the convenience store, or even total strangers. Ask questions and listen carefully to the answers. This is a great way to make new connections, or maybe meet people who share your interests and hobbies.

这就造成了类似情景：“我在脸谱网上有6000位好友、推特网上有4822个粉丝，而且无数人都能在社交媒体上看到我……可当我晚上想要出去玩时，竟然没有一个能够叫上一起去的人！” 因此，请走出去主动和邻居、便利店收银员甚至陌生人讲讲话吧。问几个问题并认真听对方解答。这是建立新联系或认识志同道合朋友的好方法。

4. Go to the coffee shop

去咖啡店

These days you can’t throw a rock without hitting a coffee shop, especially in the larger cities. Coffee shops are a great place to meet people and make contacts. As with any other social situation, it’s not enough simply to sit there sipping on your venti mochachocafrappalottaccino with half-fat soy and extra espresso. Compliment someone on their purse, their shoes, their tie, or even their laptop. A compliment is a good way to start up a conversation and might just make you a new friend.